holds the double promise of finding oneself and losing oneself. It's an experience of merging and of total self-absorption, of mutuality and selfishness. To be inside another and inside ourselves at the same time is a double stance that borders on the mystical. The momentary oneness we feel with our beloves grows out of our abillity to acknowledge our indissoluble separateness. In order to be one, you must first be two
Esther Perel
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