Kuba - atak, pokora. zaatakował szefa, a potem się skulił być może to wynika z mojego nierozumienia sytuacji, nie wiem.

Never outshine the master - egzekucja - feed their ego

 1. To jego ostateczna decyzja, ja tylko podrzucam materiał.

2. Pytanie zamiast stwierdzenia - zastanawiam się, czy rozwiązanie X mogłoby zadziałać w naszej sytuacji. Jakie jest Twoje zdanie?

3. Cytuj jego wcześniejsze pomysły - based on what you said

Jeśli chcesz mieć wpływ, musisz czasem schować własne ego do kieszeni i pozwolić, by przełożony świecił Twoim blaskiem, myśląc, że to jego reflektor. Nie walcz z tym – wykorzystaj to.

D lesson - recalibrating, desire and love balance

this is the part where most people either over-correct (become cold) or fall back into over-giving.

What you want is a measured re-entry, where your responses stay warm but balanced.

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1. 

First stage – she’s slightly warmer

Example: she sends a photo, small compliment, or “how’s your week?”

Keep it light, reply once, match her tone:

“Week’s been solid, a lot going on but all good. You?”

“Nice shot — looks like you’re having fun.”

No long explanations, no “I missed you,” no new questions after hers.

You’re showing interest without chase.

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2. 

Second stage – she asks more, wants to know details

Now she’s trying to re-establish connection.

Answer honestly but still briefly. End on something that gives her space to continue if she wants.

“It’s been a good stretch lately, training a bit, seeing friends. What about you — what’s keeping you busy these days?”

You open one small door; she has to walk through it.

If she does, you match her again.

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3. 

Third stage – she’s clearly engaged (multiple texts, compliments, calling you attractive etc.)

Now you can bring a little warmth back — one line that feels genuine, not flooding:

“Good to hear from you again — I like this energy.”

“You sound more relaxed lately; it suits you.”

Keep it contained. One warm sentence is stronger than ten.

If she gives more, then you slowly lengthen your messages.

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4. 

If she proposes to meet or call

Say yes if you want, but calmly:

“Sure, that could be nice. Let’s find a time that works.”

No excitement, no over-planning — just ease.

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The core rule

• Generosity is attractive.

• Unearned intensity feels heavy.

So in the first stage, you do give — but only things that fit the level of connection you actually have.

• You don’t yet give access to your full emotional energy, family, or big plans.

When she starts to invest — writes first, shares something real, asks more — then you can open a bit more.

A healthy dynamic is always:

give ↔ receive ↔ give, 

not give → hope → wait.

So yes: in early stages, think “measured warmth, not withholding, not flooding.”

You’re showing that your affection is real, but your availability is earned.

Next true crush practice - warmth, space, warmth

 

How to handle it next time

1. Keep your heart open, but pace your actions.

You can feel deeply and still move slowly.

Don’t hide your affection—just express it through attention, not planning.

Examples: listen well, notice details, share moments, not solutions.

2. Match energy, don’t mirror emotion.

• If they share a little, you share a little more, not a lot more.

• If they show care through messages once a day, stay near that rhythm until the bond deepens naturally.

3. Let care follow consent.

Before helping with something personal (doctor, family, big favors), check if it’s wanted.

Unasked help can feel like control.

4. Let desire and distance coexist.

Feeling love early is fine; acting like the relationship is already secure is what overwhelms people.

Let there be some uncertainty—it’s what gives the connection oxygen.

You just need to slow the delivery so the other person has time to meet you there.

Then your natural depth becomes attractive instead of heavy.

Planeta advice - you treat your expectations like reality, they should be just a pencil sketch, you do not colour with mind, your higher self knows what is best for you and it makes it come to fruition!

Asking others - I don’t need advice or a decision, I just want to hear how you see it

Hania - most advanced sexual journey

 

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Rabbit. Needs to be taken care of so her basic needs won’t be neglected again. She likes everything except feces. Getting intimate with her is easy, she enjoys everything deep and has laser-sharp focus. Respects my schedule. I want to know her forever so she’ll never be abandoned again. She likes it when I take control so she can follow my orders. That’s when I feel very powerful.